LettiNG Go. . . . .

letting go. . .

masakit man pero kailangan tanggapin, kung mahal mo talaga yung tao. what to do if sinabihan ka na ng "ayoko na,may iba na akong mahal/mahal ko pa rin siya", itatali mo ba siya? hindi bibitawan kahit hindi na kayo masaya sa company ng isa't isa?

if you really love the person, you'll let him/her go and be happy with whatever he/she wants. di ba mas masakit na maging involved sa isang relationship kung saan nagpapanggap na lang kayong dalawa, na nagiging trying hard na ang labas ng mga actions na ginagawa ninyo.

maybe he/she isn't the right one for you, even though yun na yung nakatatak sa isip mo,when you thought na till death do you part na. pero didn't you notice, the word "thought" is present, "akala".

just accept everything and be optimistic. isipin mo na lang na, "well, i did what i wanted to do, i love you and so here i am setting you free because i am true with my love. i don't want to be the reason of your pain, the obstruction of your happiness..."

hays! ang sarap talaga magbasa ng mga post kapag ganito nadadala ang damdamin ko greenwood based din ba sa experience yan? kung marunong tayong magmahal marunong din tayong magpalaya. . . sabi nga "To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences, to let go is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself to let go is not to care for,but to care about,to let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,but to allow others to affect their destinies,to let go is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality,to let go is not to deny, but to accept".

Thanks don sa poem na nabasa ko during those times na ....

brotherly advice ... letting go is also freeing yourself from miserable life he he he kasi why should fight for your love kung hindi ka naman mahal ng taong pinaglalaban mo di ba? It's not worth for him kaya better offer it to somebody really deserve your love...

vaio-kid wrote:

brotherly advice ... letting go is also freeing yourself from miserable life he he he kasi why should fight for your love kung hindi ka naman mahal ng taong pinaglalaban mo di ba? It's not worth for him kaya better offer it to somebody really deserve your love...

Ayan na naman ang lolo brotherly advice na naman eh bakit mo naman ipaglalaban ang ang isang tao kung hindi ka naman mahal aber? Isang ka*****han na yan Lolo hindi na uso ang martir para kanino ba yang advice mo na yan? Kay Greenwood ba

Letting go is not just a part of your love story .... somehow it is also a part of your decision in life how you manage to move along and how you choose what life ahead on you!

Sarap namang basahin ng "letting go"portion na to.It was just my first time to drop here,and it seems parang mga well experienced na mga nagcocomment..all of your comments & advices really have a great impact for one to reply...it's too easy to say that we have to move on at may kasabihan din na another love will only heal a wounded heart..what if wala na hehe (joke).. pero ang hirap namang iconvince ng sarili natin,sometimes we feels to be crazy,that we are even talking to ourselves.na we really have to let him go..we dont even know pano nating iaadopt yung mga advices satin..but maybe all we just have to do is the process of self understanding,we can even engage in self sabotaging behavior FOR THE PURPOSE of knowing why you are doing it?( we are the only species able to ask such question )..till malaman mo na ang ay ang engot ko pala..we also have to cry out and talk to people para maovercome na natin yung feelings na yun till sabihin natin na nakakasawa na to ah lagi na lang ganito.."at para di tayo ma refer sa mental hospital.we have to be in reasonably good contact to ourselves to find others more comprehensible..like,nakakainis na to ah bakit pa ba ko umaasa eh di na nya ko mahal..We should have a varying degree of awareness..till you find your way na masarap naman sa feeling na nandyan support ng family mo.hanggang maging matatag ka at you can stand in your own plus bonus factor pa na the right one is coming along ah..and it will really be intrinsically rewarding..